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Dealing with Avoidance in EMDR Therapy:
Blocking Beliefs, Defenses, and Getting Unstuck

Struggling with your toughest EMDR cases? Feeling stuck, blocked, or caught in repetitive loops during sessions?
In this workshop, we’ll dive into client avoidance and defenses as EMDR targets using a mix of lectures, live demonstrations and videos, real case examples, and hands-on practice.


Whether you’re a newly trained EMDR therapist or an experienced practitioner,

you’ll gain valuable skills to help you move clients forward with confidence.

Feb 12-13, 2026

Live, interactive webinar on Zoom

10:00am – 5:00pm EDT (both days)

Workshop Fee: $350 USD
Recording available for 60 days

Trainer: Crystal Whitlow, LCSW,
EMDR Basic Trainer and
Certified IFS Therapist

11 CE Clock Hours
12 EMDRIA Credits

Workshop Description

This intermediate-level training is designed for EMDR-trained clinicians seeking to enhance their ability to work with both client and clinician avoidance that interferes with trauma processing. The program teaches EMDR-based targeting tools for working with defenses using procedures drawn from Jim Knipe’s EMDR Toolbox. Consistent with the EMDR eight-phase protocol, the training focuses on clinical strategies that support attunement, affect management, and effective processing when defenses and blocks arise.

Participants will learn to assess and intervene with Knipe’s five trauma-related defenses—avoidance, dissociation, idealization, shame, and addictions—using tools such as the Blocking Beliefs Questionnaire, Level of Urge to Avoid, Level of Positive Affect, CIPOS, and future-first targeting. An introduction to parts-informed concepts within EMDR therapy is included to support understanding of internal protective responses and their role in blocking trauma processing.

Experiential practice is a central component of the training. Participants will engage in dyad and triad practice sessions that allow clinicians to work with their own avoidance, blocks, and defensive responses, deepening their ability to apply these interventions with clients. Facilitator guidance during practice sessions supports clinical integration, skill development, and application of EMDR procedures aligned with participant treatment goals.

Intended audience: Master’s level social workers, counselors, marriage and family therapists; psychologists; psychiatrists.

Eligibility Requirements: PARTIAL EMDR TRAINING
This workshop is open to clinicians who are at least partially trained in EMDR which means they have completed part of an EMDRIA Approved Basic EMDR Training and/or still finishing their 10 hours of required consultation.It is recommended that participants have completed the full EMDR Basic Training and have experience in using EMDR with clients. This workshop is not an EMDR Basic Training.

Level of Content: Intermediate

Course Interaction
This live webinar is fully interactive. Attendees may ask and answer questions throughout the workshop, participate in instructor-led discussion, and practice skills in a dyad or triad with facilitator able to provide assistance.

Learning Objectives:

1. Identify client defenses
2. Describe Blocking Beliefs in clients using the Blocking Beliefs questionnaire
3. Describe preparation skills for addressing defenses and avoidance in EMDR therapy
4. Recognize ways to use EMDR with dissociation
5. Summarize targeting client avoidance/defenses safely with EMDR therapy techniques
6. Discuss EMDR for the positive affect of defenses
7. Recognize and target Shame using integration of parts work
8. Introduce IFS language of parts work for shame

Trainer Information

Crystal Whitlow is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in South Bend, Indiana. Crystal began her career as a therapist in domestic violence and sexual assault crisis centers, followed by Community Mental Health work. In 2008, she opened her private practice specializing in PTSD with a focus on EMDR therapy. She is an Approved Consultant and Trainer in EMDR and now spends half her working life teaching EMDR Therapy trainings and providing consultation for EMDR therapists. In 2017, she developed a two day EMDR Advanced training workshop titled “Dealing with Avoidance in EMDR Therapy: Blocking Beliefs, Defenses, and Getting Unstuck” based on Jim Knipe’s EMDR Toolbox. In 2023, Crystal became an IFS Certified Therapist through the IFS Institute and began teaching IFS Informed EMDR with the Syzygy Institute. She maintains a small private practice in South Bend, Indiana.

Workshop Agenda

Day 1: Thursday, February 12, 2026
10:00 AM – 5:00 PM Eastern Time

10:00–11:30 a.m.
Introduction to Blocking Beliefs and Trauma-Related Defenses
(Lecture, large-group exercise, demonstration)

This segment introduces the core concepts of the workshop, with a focus on tools and strategies for working with client defenses and avoidance that interfere with EMDR trauma processing. Blocking beliefs and common trauma-related defenses—including avoidance, idealization, addictions, dissociation, and shame—are defined and examined using concepts drawn from The EMDR Toolbox by Jim Knipe. Participants will be introduced to the Blocking Beliefs Questionnaire and will complete it as a large-group experiential exercise designed to identify and loosen cognitive barriers to effective EMDR processing.


11:30–11:45 a.m.
Break


11:45 a.m.–12:00 p.m.
Building a Processing Resource
(Lecture and video demonstration)

This segment introduces the Processing Resource, an enhancement of Leeds and Korn’s Resource Development and Installation (RDI). The Processing Resource is used when clients feel blocked or stuck in EMDR processing. The instructor will demonstrate how to guide clients to identify needed internal resources by noticing present challenges and accessing past experiences of competence or resilience.


12:00–1:00 p.m.
Practice: Processing Resource
(Dyad/triad experiential practice)

Participants will practice the Processing Resource intervention in dyads or triads, rotating roles to deepen understanding of the intervention from both therapist and client perspectives.


1:00–2:00 p.m.
Lunch


2:00–3:15 p.m.
Trauma Defenses, Dissociation, and Stabilization Strategies
(Lecture and guided experiential exercise)

This segment focuses on the five main trauma defenses, with particular emphasis on dissociation. Assessment and screening tools for dissociation will be reviewed, including Jim Knipe’s Back of the Head Scale, which participants will complete as a guided group exercise to assess present orientation and moment-to-moment dissociation. CIPOS (Constant Installation of Present Orientation and Safety) will be introduced as a pendulation strategy for use with highly dissociative clients. Clinical applications of CIPOS for enhancing distress tolerance and maintaining dual awareness during EMDR processing will be discussed.


3:15–3:30 p.m.
Break


3:30–5:00 p.m.
Targeting Future First in EMDR Therapy
(Lecture, practice, and large-group discussion)

This segment introduces the clinical rationale for targeting future templates before past memories when working with highly defended or dissociative clients. The concept of “future-first targeting” will be presented as a titration strategy to increase client tolerance for trauma processing. Clinical examples and practice exercises will be used, with reference to the work of Robbie Adler-Tapia and Ad de Jongh. The day will conclude with large-group discussion and questions.

Day 2: Friday, February 13, 2026
10:00 AM – 5:00 PM Eastern Time

10:00–10:30 a.m.
Level of Urge to Avoid (LoUA): Targeting Avoidance Defenses
(Lecture and video/demonstration)

This segment introduces Jim Knipe’s Level of Urge to Avoid (LoUA) scale, an adaptation of the standard EMDR 0–10 Subjective Units of Disturbance (SUD) scale. Participants will learn how the LoUA scale is used to safely work with clients who experience strong avoidance defenses by turning toward avoidance without overwhelming the client. Clinical applications of LoUA for assessment and targeting in EMDR processing will be demonstrated.


10:30–11:15 a.m.
Idealization Defense and Level of Positive Affect
(Lecture and demonstration)

This segment focuses on idealization as one of the five primary trauma-related defenses described by Knipe. Participants will learn how to assess and target idealization using the Level of Positive Affect scale (0–10). The clinical rationale for activating idealization and applying bilateral stimulation to reduce attachment to problematic relationships, behaviors, or addictions will be discussed and demonstrated.


11:15–11:30 a.m.
Break


11:30 a.m.–1:00 p.m.
Practice: Targeting Avoidance or Idealization Defenses
(Dyad/triad experiential practice)

Participants will practice EMDR targeting strategies using either the avoidance defense (LoUA) or the idealization defense (Level of Positive Affect), based on personal or clinical relevance. Dyads or triads will rotate roles to enhance skill integration.


1:00–2:00 p.m.
Lunch


2:00–3:00 p.m.
Working with Shame in EMDR Therapy
(Lecture and demonstration)

This segment addresses shame as a trauma-related defense that can block EMDR processing. Participants will learn strategies for turning toward shame safely within EMDR treatment. The Loving Eyes intervention will be demonstrated as a method for fostering self-compassion by helping clients access distance from traumatized child parts while engaging bilateral stimulation.


3:00–3:15 p.m.
Break


3:15–4:00 p.m.
Integrating EMDR and Parts Work
(Lecture and large-group experiential exercise)

This segment introduces the integration of EMDR therapy with parts work, with specific reference to Internal Family Systems (IFS)–informed concepts. Participants will explore how protective parts can function as defenses against trauma processing and will engage in a group exercise focused on beginning the process of unblending from parts that have concerns about EMDR work.


4:00–4:15 p.m.
Phase 8: Reevaluation in Complex EMDR Cases
(Lecture)

This segment reviews Phase 8 (Reevaluation) of the EMDR eight-phase protocol, with emphasis on its role in work with complex PTSD and defended clients. Participants will learn how reevaluation can be used to assess residual disturbance, defenses, and blocks to processing, and how this informs treatment planning aligned with client goals.


4:15–5:00 p.m.
Case Consultation, Demonstration, and Wrap-Up
(Case discussion, instructor demonstration, and Q&A)

The day concludes with case consultation, optional demonstration, large-group discussion, and participant questions.

Continuing Education (CE) Credit Information

Course Completion Requirements
To earn CE credit, participants must attend the entire course live, have their video on, and be in front of their video so attendance can be verified. Additionally, participants must complete an online course evaluation. Certificates of completion will be emailed after online course evaluation is completed via Flexiquiz.

CE Credits Available
Participants will receive 11 hours of continuing education (CE) credit upon completing this program. Carefully look at the approvals/acceptances that have been secured for the training for which you are registering.

This workshop qualifies for 11 continuing education clock hours as required by many national, state, and local licensing boards and professional organizations. Many states do not require specific approvals; several states require specific approvals; many accept national organization approvals or providers from other states. Save this workshop advertisement and certificate of completion, and contact your own board or organization for specific requirements.

By registering for this course, you agree to check in to and be knowledgeable about the continuing education approvals that are required for members of your profession in your state. You may contact Multiplicity of the Mind Learning Center with any questions PRIOR to the workshop. 

EMDRIA : 12 Credits
Multiplicity of the Mind Learning Center is an approved EC Provider (#24005) and this program (#24005-06) is approved for 12 EMDRIA Credits. Eligibility for EMDRIA Credits is restricted to those who have completed an EMDRIA-Approved Basic EMDR Training. Multiplicity of the Mind Learning Center maintains responsibility for this program and its content in accordance with EMDRIA requirements.

NBCC: 11 CEs
Multiplicity of the Mind Learning Center has been approved by NBCC as an Approved Continuing Education Provider, ACEP No. 7522. Programs that do not qualify for NBCC credit are clearly identified. Multiplicity of the Mind Learning Center is solely responsible for all aspects of the programs.

ASWB ACE: 11 CEs
Multiplicity of the Mind Learning Center, #2113, is approved as an ACE provider to offer social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) Approved Continuing Education (ACE) program. Regulatory boards are the final authority on courses accepted for continuing education credit. ACE provider approval period: 07/23/2025 – 07/23/2028. Social workers completing this course receive 11 clinical continuing education credits.

New York does not accept ASWB ACE provider or course/conference approval.

What states accept ASWB ACE clock hours? LINK

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